how to be happy in the future

Since i checked my profile and saw that more and more of you are reading my blog, I want to post about my recent realizations.  These may help you in life. *_*
Not too serious now....  I put the important things in bold letters. Have fun reading!
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One of the best things that i want to share with you is this: "Live the moment."

Often times we are always on a hurry in life.  What we fail to realize is that each moment that we breathe is   a gift.  When time passes, its gone, forever.  The present is the path towards the future.  In order for the future to become stable enough, we have to live the moment.  "I wish I were ____again."  we often hear this dont we?  Well we dont have to be like this.  We can be happy every moment.  We just have to choose happiness.  Yes, it is a choice.

We can be happy even if we are already tired.  Two saturdays ago I didnt want to take my sister and treat her to dinner because im quite tired and i dont want to spend money.  I just want to lie down and sleep or watch a movie at home.  But then that time i realized, my sister is not always here with me.  One day, before i know it, she will leave and i would be sitting here thinking "what if?"

What if, I went with her to this restaurant, or what if she were here... what will we do together?  There are moments when I thought about these things, especially im leaving alone here, away from my family.  but i realized that now that my family's here, i am letting it go and trying to hold on to the things i want to do which i can actually do later.

Every chance that comes to you, every moment of your life, you live it.  you breathe, think, of the present so that when the future comes you will not have your what ifs or regrets.


To all of you singles, or youth, young at heart, and so on:  

You dont hurry to get a boyfriend/girlfriend.  You dont hurry to be wed.  You dont hurry to be an adult.  You live every moment.  Now that you are single, now that you are young, this is your time for yourself.  This is your time to find out who you are -- to know yourself more.  This is your only unique special time to be stable and to know your principles in life, to know your identity.  You discover many things about yourself which you can share with your future.  This is what will make you, yourself.  Never mind all the other people, just know this --- do not hurry.

In choosing people, you should know your principles first.  in choosing people it is best to choose based on the principles you have.  hold on to your principles, you dont compromise your principles.  In my case, my greatest principle is God.  I will follow his ways and i never want to compromise any of those.  I am not myself without those principles.  It is part of my identity.  Having the same principles in life will give you and your relationship with others a sound foundation.  it is like the cement which anchors two people to the ground and makes them connected and stick with each other forever.


Friends, i have many other things to share.  i shall continue in another blog.  please digest these things right now. espeically the ones in bold fonts. :D

Howdy friends! Long time no blog... I haven't blogged for about a week now,